Over Doing and Over Busy?

Confidence is the #1 issue facing women and girls today. What I mean, is a lack thereof.

We over perform, we overdo, we excel at all we do. We’re ambitious, we’re on it. We run circles around everyone. We expect so much from ourselves. And of course we have to look good while doing it all, too.

When I left the corporate world, I planned to take a year off. I was ecstatic. I was finally going to be free of the high pressure job, the endless red eye flights, the constant anxiety and worry. My adrenals were spent, I was spent. I blamed my stress and exhaustion on the job itself.

Two months into my one year sabbatical, instead of feeling a sense of ease, I was still driving myself. My todo list kept getting bigger and I had the same sense of urgency as when I was working. I was obsessed to get everything done, just so. Instead of feeling a sense of joy and freedom, I felt trapped.

I realized it wasn’t the job. It was me.

Our self worth and self esteem are wrapped up in our performance. We desperately want to be validated for who we are so we do more. As if our herculean efforts will somehow cover up and fill the void we feel deep down that we are not enough.

So many women I know are doing their lives this way. Are you?

I’m here to tell you it’s a vicious cycle. There is a better way.

True self confidence comes from a feeling from the inside. It’s feeling comfortable in your skin. It’s validating, yourself, for all that you are. It’s an unwavering belief that you are loved for who you are, not for what you do. Because you are more than enough.

The truth is, until we get a handle on this, we’ll never step fully into our power. Confidence and power go hand in hand.

Give yourself permission to ditch the overdoing and create a life of pure abundant magic. To learn more about my Freedom Method, book a clarity call with me here.

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Are you a successful, driven woman who excels at what you do… and yet you never seem to be enough?
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