Who doesn’t want to feel confident, comfortable in our skin and have the world by the tail?
Most of us are confident in some situations but not all. You’re killing it at your job. Your pickleball game is off the charts. You just landed a mega client. You are tickled pink about your love life. You got the promotion! But then something happens. Confidence can be tricky and fleeting – one moment you feel it, the next you don’t.
The truth is, real confidence isn’t situational. Confidence is knowing in your heart that you are enough. That you can do anything you put your mind to. That everything will be okay – actually is – okay.
If your confidence wavers, try these 3 steps:
Step 1 – Scrap Looking Good at All Costs
We all want to be liked and admired. But the people pleasing has got to go. Stop caring what others think of you ABOVE all else. The constant overdoing has got to go too. Contrary to popular belief, it’s not about how you look or what you do.
Step 2 – Find Your Purpose
When you have a dazzling north star, you feel connected to what really matters to you. We all have a purpose, it’s your raison d’etre or a deeper desire to serve or contribute. When you marry your authentic brand with your purpose, you are unstoppable.
Step 3 – Create A Bold Life Plan
A plan that is so expansive and inspiring that just thinking about it puts a smile on your face. You have big dreams and ambitions. Create a plan to make it a reality and work it. The more action you take. the more momentum you’ll build. The more momentum, the more motivation you’ll have.
We’re not born with confidence, we learn it. Confidence takes listening to your intuition and trusting yourself. The more you take inspired action towards what you want – regardless of the outcome – the more confident you’ll become.
It’s never too late to build your self-confidence muscle. Start building it today.
Ready to Be Super Confident and Unstoppable?
Say adios to goals that stress you out and get in touch with what truly matters. Take the first steps toward living the life you really want rather than waiting until the ‘Time Is Right”. Learn this 3 step process to create unshakeable confidence.